I learned two really big things this semester from being in the field and from our field class.
1 - Family involvement and family knowledge is vital to really understanding a child.
and 2 - When you teach your children good classroom management skills from the get go, the whole rest of the year will run more smoothly.
I really enjoyed the family assignment we had this semester! I was nervous about it at first, and had my doubts about how relevant it would be. BUT after going and witnessing the child's family life, I realized just how much their home environment plays out into their school life. I had a whole new understanding of the child from just being within her home setting for a few hours. It would be great if the opportunity was there to visit with every child in your class, but of course the time aspect would play a huge role in that not being possible. I definitely want to reach out to all parents when I become a teacher, and let them know that we really are a team and that I would love to have as much communication between as possible.
My cooperating teacher had the keys to what classroom management really are. I wish I could have been there in the first few weeks to see what she had done. (or if the children in her class are really that well behaved on their own). I do believe the children were pretty good on their own, but I know without a doubt that it is the way my teacher respected and loved each and every child that made all the difference in the world. I only witnessed positive reinforcement inside her classroom. When negative behavior did happen, she was quick to correct it in private and providing a real explanation as to why the behavior was not expectable. She really did a fantastic job relating to her students and having them feel that they were an important part to her classroom and that their behavior was noticed and appreciated. I always heard her complementing students when they were doing the "right thing" such as standing in line properly, or sitting on the carpet quietly. She always let her students know exactly what she expected from them, and then reinforced it when they did it. She set her children up to succeed! I believe all her children knew how much she respected them, and loved them, and they therefore toke it upon themselves to act they way that was desired by her. I have never been inside a classroom, let alone a kindergarten classroom, where the children were so independent, on task and well behaved! It was an eye opening experience and I will definitely take all I have learned from her into my own classroom one day.